A few steps that you might consider are below. They are simple steps, although it is not a simple situation for the people affected. Here is how to begin a conversation with your children:
1. Briefly explain the situation.
2. Explain that Jesus teaches us to love our neighbors and love our enemies.
3. Pray for the families.
4. Pray for the "bad guy," that he will have a change of heart.
5. Apply the situation.
6. Let them ask questions.
7. Notice their responses. Did they listen to what you said to them? Did they converse or were they confused? Did they have a change of heart in caring for all people?
The Bible gives us great advice in Romans 12:9-21. Consider reading this as a family:
"Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with the Lord's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.
"Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
"Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord. On the contrary:
"'If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.'
"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
When you focus on the heart of your child and the Biblical teachings that you can instill, you will be delighted to see hope in these times.
Thanks for reading!
~Melissa Seng
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